Loving God and our neighbors does not come naturally for many of us; it is probable that it was meant to be like that so that we would rely on God’s ability. That being the case, we should always pray to God to help us love others including forgiving those who do us wrong.
When Jesus was asked what the great commandment in the law was, He said, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself” (Matthew 22:37-39).