Before we were conceived in our mothers’ wombs, we actually preexisted with jobs God had assigned us to do for Him when He sends us to earth. It is our personal responsibility to discover our assignments and to fulfil them. Some people are blessed in that they easily get to clearly know their God-given callings. Some others must seek God for that knowledge. In whichever lot you fall, you are expected of God to fulfil that which was assigned to you long before you were born.
According to Gary Chapman, there are five general ways or love languages that people use to communicate (give and receive) love. These are: acts of service, gift-giving, physical touch, quality time, and words of affirmation. Apparently, every human being has a specific primary love language.